You
prolly saw the title for this blog and thought, “Uh, nothing, Hil. The
Bible never mentions Santa!” Oh, but it does in a large sense. If
you will give me a moment I will share Scripture that my husband and I have
leaned on for years when it comes to Santa, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny,
etc. Seeing that this is a controversial subject and it comes up every
year around this time of year, what’s one more blog about it?
My
kids are long past the age of make-believe. Marty and I didn’t teach them
to fantasize about anything. We didn’t tell them that someone other than
Christ gave them anything. Sure, we go to the store and buy their
Christmas and birthday gifts, but they know that ultimately, the blessing comes
from the Lord – which includes Marty’s job and paycheck.
Many
argue that it’s ok to tell their kids that Santa is Jesus’s errand boy, so to
speak. But is that giving the full measure of glory to the Lord? If
I took the time to shop for, or even make a gift to give to someone, I have
done it out of my heart. How insulted would I be if, when I went to a
shower, the bride or mother-to-be was presented with my gift and told that the
person who handed it to her gets the credit because that person was the go-between?
Very much so. I would have taken the time to check the gift
registry. I would have taken the time to pick something out, pay for it,
wrap it, and bring it to her. No way is someone else going to take credit
for that! And what if the bride thanked someone else for the gift I gave
knowing full well my name was on the gift card? I would be pret-ty miffed!
“But
Santa can be shown kneeling before the Cross!” so the contention goes.
Just like any other figments of my imagination. They are in my head.
But they aren’t God. They aren’t the One Who gave Himself fully for me on
that Cross.
Here
are a just a few of the verses we stand on.
Exodus 20:1-6
“I am the Lord your God, who brought you
out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
You shall have no other gods
before me.
You shall not make for yourself an image in the
form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters
below. You shall not bow
down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the
children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth
generation of those who hate me, but
showing love to a thousand generations of those who love Me and keep My
commandments.”
The
name God uses for Himself when He calls Himself Lord is “eternal God.”
Revelation 1:8 says, “I am the Alpha and the Omega, says the Lord God, who is
and who was and who is to come, the Almighty.”
Jealous
means just that – not to be equated with school girl territorial spats.
It means that God is Who He says He is and has every right to say that nothing
shall come before Him. He will not stand in anyone’s shadow. He
made the shadows.
If
God is Who He says He is, I don't want to mess with that.
Next:
Isaiah 42:8
Isaiah 42:8
“I am the
LORD: that is My name: and My glory will I not give to
another, neither My praise to graven images.”
He
wants credit given where credit is due. He is the Only One to be
worshipped, to be thanked, to be adored. Rightfully so. His Son
gave His full life for us on the Cross.
Next:
James 1:17
“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming
down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting
shadows.”
The
concept of the small god, Santa, is fashioned after a man. Yes, there was
a St. Nicholas who was a really generous guy. My dad was generous, too,
but I think he would roll over in his grave if anyone idolized him. And, St. Nicholas was still a sinner who needed salvation like the rest of us.
He, like us, changed like shifting shadows with the next fickle whim that came
along. And he didn’t die on the Cross for me.
The
modern Santa puts full condition on the recipients of presents. Bad or
good. Naughty or nice. So much so that children are taught grace by
performance. Write to Santa and tell him what you want. Tell him
you’ve been good this year. See if the sugar daddy will bring you what
your heart lusts after.
Until
the Sears catalogue went out of print, children everywhere awaited the arrival
of the Christmas edition in mail. The eyes scanned each item on each page
of the toy section, and copious lists were made in the hopes that something –
or many things – would be under the tree. I was taught to lust after
stuff. I still do to some degree, and I have to do some self-correction
when I find myself wanting things I don’t need.
God
is no sugar daddy. He is generous, kind, wonderful, patient, loving – but
not a spineless wimp. His gifts are not deserved by anyone. No one
can earn anything. They are fully of His grace. Each breath I take,
each time I get up and walk, each time I have a morsel of food to put in my
mouth to satisfy my hunger pangs - all are by His grace.
Which
brings me to my final verse (although I know the list cannot be exhausted:)
I John 2:16
“For everything in the world--the lust of the flesh,
the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life--comes not from the Father but from
the world.” The One Who died on the Cross
tells me to forsake everything.
I
don’t believe God says we can’t give and receive gifts. I don’t believe
God says we can’t celebrate Christmas or the day of His resurrection. If
they are done in His name, for His name, and credit is fully given Him, why
not?
How
do we do Christmas gifts with the boys? They get three each to represent
the gifts of the Magi. They have never asked for more. They know
what to expect. Yes, my kids lust after stuff like the rest of us.
I hope we have given them a good foundation, though. I won’t sit here and
tell you I am Wonder Mother who does charity work with my kids on
holidays. (We do that other times of the year with our home school
groups.) I won’t tell you that we have asked them to give up their
favorite presents. I won’t tell you that we have done thankfulness jars
in which we place pieces of paper on which we have written things we are
thankful for and then read through them at the end of the year. I tried
that. It lasted about…..a day. I am not that disciplined. I once
tried to do the “share something you’re thankful for” with extended family at
Thanksgiving. Awwwkward! So I told them about my procedure
instead. (kidding) To the parents who can pull off that stuff – God
bless you. I give you a lot of credit. But I do hope Marty
and I have modeled something for them through the things we have
done.
For
the people who do choose to do these things with your kids: that is entirely up
to you. Our family is not your family. And you don’t have to hide
the fact that you do. Marty and I are accountable for our own decisions.
Hence,
my kids grew up without Santa and the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny.
They don’t exist and I would be lying if I told them otherwise. They
crowd out the view of my Father and I believe they put Him to the test. I
don’t want their view of Him crowded out either. My kids are not any
worse for the wear.
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